
Lloyd
Albury (Nellie/Wm>Alta Ruth>Reatha, wife of Lloyd) has undergone
surgery for colon cancer. He is recovering well, and the prognosis
is very optimistic. He should be resting comfortably at home soon.
05/27/2006
As
I was writing you a while ago, I had a phone call on the voice
mail from Felicia . Felicia said she had let Dylan stay with Mikey
and yesterday afternoon they had left the baby with Kevin's mother
and gone to pick Dylan up. He didn't want to go home, but she
told him he had to because a hurricane was coming. As they were
going home, a car ran in front of Kevin. Kevin hit the brakes,
which ran him off of the wet road. The car hit a culvert and went
head over heels and landed upside down. Felicia said as she looked
back, the back windshield was out and she didn't see Dylan. She
said he was hanging upside down in his seatbelt. When she got
him out, and they were on the edge of the road he asked her, "Was
that the hurricane?" 8-18-2004 Sent by Cheryl Albury P (Nellie/Wm>Alta
Ruth> Reatha>Cheryl>Felicia>Dylan)
The
letter Lavida posted today was one of the most touching things
I have ever read.....It's funny what kids remember...I don't remember
the birthday party, but I know we used to celebrate a lot of birthdays
when we lived on Bird Street in the 1960's. My neighbor, Gail,
loved to make special cakes, so we would all get together for
parties. Her daughter, Threasa, was the little neighbor girl.
However, I wonder about Lavida's perception of things in other
areas....I have never thought of myself as soft spoken and doubt
my kids have either...
One time Erik (Nellie/Wm>Alta>Gerry>Erik) told me something
he remembered from living at our house in Dover when he was six
or seven years old that brought tears to my eyes....I still laugh
when I think of the time I had him pick up the grapefruit that
had fallen on the ground which was a considerable amount... There
was an electric sub-station close by the grapefruit tree, and
he was pitching them over the high fence that surrounded it.....Just
so happened a friend of ours was inside the fence working, but
Erik did not see him.....After a few grapefruit came sailing over
the fence, a booming voice came from that direction, "What
you doing boy!!?" Poor little kid.....
I still feel bad when I think of the Easter they were there....It
was decided Cheryl (Nellie/Wm>Alta>Reatha>Cheryl) , who
was living in an apartment, would do the Easter eggs for Erik
and Felicia (N/W>Alta>Reatha>Cheryl>Felicia) who was
about a year old. She was working long hours...She put the eggs
on to boil and thought to lie down for just a minute to rest.
She woke up with the eggs hitting the ceiling....We did not have
any eggs that year for the kids.....I feared it marked Erik for
life, but guess it didn't....One wonders how the time they spend
with kids affects them...as they perceive things differently than
we do. We never know unless they tell us later.... Thanks, Lavida
for telling me....Aunt Reatha
AUNT
REATHER
Yes,
I said "Reather", because as a child, listening to all
of my relatives with their very southern accents, that is how
it sounded to me. As a little girl, being extremely shy and timid,
Aunt Reather (i.e. Reatha Johns-Albury) was the quietest and most
soft spoken person that I knew. I enjoyed visiting her home sometimes
in the summer, and when I was 7 she gave me a surprise birthday
party inviting the little girl next door and my cousin Mindy.
She had a piano, and she let me "play" on it. (I never
did really learn how). And she made the best roast and potatoes
that I have ever had. At her house was the first time that I ever
had thousand island dressing. I remember that I loved it very
much. She always took me to church with her, and I loved staying
with her in the summer so that I could go to vacation bible school.
The other day while visiting the web site, I wandered into Aunt
Reatha's page and saw looking back at me her beautiful face from
1965. It reminded me how angelic she looked. Don't get me wrong,
ALL of those girls were knock down gorgeous! But Aunt Reather
just seemed to have some intangible quality that just made it
seem like she had been kissed by God. I have all of these memories
of her, and I wanted to be sure that it was written down, in case
for some reason one day I can't remember. Aunt Reather, I love
you. Lavida 7-15-03
Subject:
The twist
Life
has a strange way of taking twists and turns. One such involves
the May Day story Virginia told. Although I had long since left
Thonotosassa Elementary School as my place of formal education,
I attended the May celebration there. There was not a lot to do
in Thonotosassa, and any social function was well attended. We
had plays, put on by the students, carnivals and talent shows
at the school. When the accident happened with Virginia, I was
in a place where I heard the impact and was on the scene a few
seconds after it happened....As everybody rushed to the scene,
I was visibly shaken when I saw who it was...We all stood around
in shock as the ambulance came and took her away...I do remember
hearing that the man who had hit her went to the hospital to see
her and that he had a large family
Fast
forward a year or two. I attended Brandon High School in the 10th
grade and became bosom buddies with a girl who went there....Some
time during that year, she told me she would like for me to meet
her boyfriend's brother.... I was attending another function at
Thonotosassa School, in the fall I believe, when I heard someone
call my name. I turned to see who it was and saw my bosom buddy
with a boy. She introduced me to him, and from that meeting we
began to date....Not long after she asked me, "You don't
know who he is, do you?"...Innocently, I said, "No."
She told me that it was his father who had hit Virginia with his
car....She told me he felt so bad about the accident...that he
loved kids, had twelve or thirteen of his own...I had no ill feelings
toward the boy or his father, realizing it was an accident.

Reatha with Janet & Ray Smith (Nellie/Wm>Thelma>Janet)
Reunion 2002
Photo by Barb Burdett S
SERENDIPITY
Spring Lake, Florida
THE
MOVE
Stuff!
Just stuff!! Lots of stuff!! What a tremendous amount of 'stuff'
we accumulate over the years. One is not motivated to evaluate
the necessity of all this 'stuff' until a move is undertaken.
We
put the 'stuff' into categories: 'Functional Stuff'- Furniture,
appliances, tools, dishes, linens. 'Memories Stuff'- Stuff that
has been given to you or has some special meaning associated with
it. "The Someday We Might Have a Use For It Stuff"-
This is stuff that you no sooner throw away, than you need it.
" The It would cost us a lot more to replace it now Stuff."-You
don't ever use it, but if you ever needed it, you would have to
pay a lot more for it.
It's
perfectly logical to see how most of the 'stuff' fell under the
heading of "Necessary", so most of it made the move.
We had four or five large, box trucks full of 'stuff' to move,
plus what we could cram into the van, car and truck. And then
there were the pets; a few cats, Pepper our little black dog and
Bear the chow dog, who had been given to me for Christmas one
year over Lloyd's objections. These definitely fell into the "Necessary"
category.
The
move to Spring Lake was overwhelming. We had two weeks to be out
after the closing on the house, I was working, and it was the
middle of August. Anyone who has ever been to Florida in August,
knows the heat and humidity are almost unbearable. We were moving
from a large, two story house to a mobile home (without air conditioning)
and a shed. 'Stuff' was put in every nook and cranny. The shed
was packed solid right to the door. Some things had to be put
outside and covered with plastic, as there just was not room for
all the 'stuff'. But we were going to build a house, so thought
we could cope. Our coping skills were put to the ultimate test.
The
kitchen was a woman's nightmare, scarcely any counter top area,
although the table was close enough to the stove and sink that
by positioning your feet just right and stretching, it could be
used like a counter top. I could not find my large pot, or many
of the essentials, but right there within reach were our winter
coats and the Christmas decorations. I did not find my make-up
for two weeks. This was not a problem, however, as in the heat,
it would run right off of one's face, and I did not leave the
place for weeks, if not months. Then when we began to build, it
was an experience no human being should have to endure.
PART
TWO COUNTRY LIFE
Before
moving to Spring Lake, we would come up on weekends, put the hammocks
out under the trees, and bask in the quiet and solitude. Thankfully,
we had built the small shed during that time. Living here, the
traffic and hustle and bustle of Hillsborough County, which increased
every month and through the years had gotten almost unbearable,
was far removed. I was grateful to be away from it and here where
few cars went by on the road all day. Being able to retire added
to the feeling of being liberated. As
I soaked up the seclusion and the wonders of nature, I began to
revive, until I am almost normal after ten years of living here.
GOD'S
CREATION The first morning I went down the long driveway to get
the paper, there was one lone morning glory hanging from a tree.
I felt it was there to welcome me. I now took time to enjoy nature
and saw many very small birds flitting about high in the trees.
I noted there were different varieties, but did not know if they
were finches or not. Woodpeckers using their jack hammer beaks
to get bugs out of the trees were entertaining. There seemed to
be an abundance of these birds, and many of them were much larger
than I had seen before.
Most
evenings at dusk, we went outside to enjoy the quietness and listen
to the night sounds. Who wanted to be cooped up in a mobile home?
with no air conditioning? Just as dark settled in, we would hear
the hoot, hoot, hoot of the night owls with their scary sounds.
In the distance, we could hear the whip-poor-wills calling to
each other. Lightning bugs flitted about. Looking up into the
night sky was exhilarating as God's handiwork was displayed before
us. There seemed to be so many more stars and they were much closer.
It is a marvel what real darkness does for the night sky. The
cats and Pepper gathered around, sharing our company and the enchantment
of the night.
I still marvel at the sights and sounds of nature which are so
abundant here. The trees are
on
the front of the property, and the hill and pasture are on the
back, so from my kitchen window, I have a clear view of the sky.
I have watched large, fluffy, white clouds drift across the blue
sky, and enjoyed the evening sky ablaze with beautiful red streaking
across the vast expanse. I have observed dark, threatening clouds,
with ominous streaks of lightning and booming thunder, as a storm
builds.
In
the mornings as I look out across the pastures, I see mist covered
hills. As the sun begins to spread it's rays, I see diamonds on
the trees and grass. How thrilled I was the first time I looked
out the kitchen window and saw the bluebirds with their tangerine
colored breast. I had only seen them in pictures before and did
not think they came this far south. I have always thought of them
as "the bluebirds of happiness". One winter there were
five or six that darted about, lighting momentarily to eat the
small seeds from a tree in the back yard. On several occasions,
I went outside to try to capture them on film, but I was disappointed
as my presence scared them away. They come only rarely any more
as we have so many cats. I really miss them. Little cottontail
rabbits, feeding on the green shoots have been spotted on my way
to the mailbox. Sometimes they would continue to eat, but other
times they darted for their home in the thicket near the road.
One day just as I started down the driveway to the mailbox, I
stopped in my tracks as I saw a flock of wild turkeys turn into
our drive from the road. There were several adult birds and many
little ones. They came just a short distance, changed their minds,
turned and went back out on the road. Soon, they disappeared in
the woods, which are just a little ways down the road and across
from us. Other times we have seen two or three together as we
made our way down the tree covered, graded road heading south.
PART
THREE-We Were Not Alone
Each
spring we watched as small birds looked for places to build their
nests. Many times they chose the supports on the front porch.
When we saw the baby birds begin to fly, we kept close watch to
keep the cats away from them. I remember one time a bird was raising
her young in a nest she had made in the hanging pot right outside
the front window. The babies were getting older and beginning
to flutter in the nest. One of the cats was on the window sill
watching the motion. I left her as I did not think she could reach
the nest. Quick as a wink, the cat leapt from the window sill.
Hanging on the edge of the pot with her front paws, she swung
back and forth until she fell. She never tried that trick again.
One
day, we were watching out for some baby birds who had jumped out
of the nest and were fluttering in the air for a short distance
before falling to the ground. Out of nowhere, one of the cats
jumped on one of the little birds. Lloyd ran outside, and rescued
the bird from the cat's mouth. He locked the cat in the shed until
all the baby birds were secure in the trees in the front.

A
short time after moving to Spring Lake, we noticed signs of animals
digging. Then we spotted a couple of armadillos rooting in the
yard. They would come out in the early morning hours and root
for grubs and worms. When their rooting became destructive to
the yard and flower beds, I tried everything I could think of
to discourage them. I even planted moth balls just under the dirt
to keep them out of the flower beds. Nothing worked. Finally,
in order to have any plants, Lloyd put up low fences around all
the flower beds. Many times we could hear Pepper, the little dog,
deep under the low shed where they lived, furiously barking at
them. She dug holes under it in her pursuit and would come out
with her nose covered with dirt. It did not seem to bother the
armadillos. We have watched them raise their young. Early one
morning, I saw a small one nosing around in the yard. Shortly
afterward, I saw two, then three. The mother had triplets that
year. We delighted in watching them as they made their rounds
in the early morning, hunting for food. When the young ones were
old enough, the family disappeared for a while. We decided they
took the young off somewhere and left them to begin their own
lives. Weeks later, I noticed an armadillo in the yard grubbing
for worms. I never had the heart to try to run them off as I had
never seen one before moving here, and I liked watching them.
Lloyd called them, "Opossum on the half shell".
PART
FOUR
One
day at noon, Lloyd and I were sitting at the bar eating lunch
(this was after we moved into the house). I looked out the window,
and running along the fence line was a large, red fox. We did
not have time to get the camera and get a picture of him as he
was running at a pretty good clip. As Lloyd hurried outside, the
fox turned and ran across the ridge up in the pasture, to quickly
disappear. A resident opossum lived under another shed. Sometimes,
Pepper would stick her nose in the opossum's entrance to his home
under the shed and bark continuously at him. Didn't seem to bother
him either, as he continued to live here. After Pepper died, many
times in the evenings just after dark, the opossum would be seen
out on the back porch eating the left over cat food. The cats
would just lie on the picnic table or banister and watch as the
opossum ate their food. For a few months, there was a racoon who
lived under the back deck. But after a while he had just moved
on.

I
always look forward to the spring here as the flowers burst forth
and the trees shed their old leaves and put on new green ones.
The fields and ditches along the highways are covered with phlox,
the azaleas are ablaze with color, and throughout the woods dogwoods
can be seen. And I know the cuttings will root into new plants.

But
I believe I like the fall more, as the oppressive heat and humidity
leave, and the air takes on a cool crispness. In late August,
early September, the morning glories cover vines, trees and fences
along the roadsides. The raintrees fill with yellow bloom, which
shortly turn into pink blossoms They always remind me of Aunt
Reatha, as she had several of these trees in her yard. The fields
turn golden, and the leaves change, some red, some yellow, adding
color among the greens and browns.

Large
rolls of hay are stored on the edges of the fields. Several times
in the fall, Lloyd has put bales of hay on the large trailer and
we have gone for a hayride after roasting hot dogs over a fire
and drinking the hot cider my friend always makes. Some of the
kids usually come up and we have a few friends over to share the
fun.
One
time as Lloyd took a haywagon full of kids and the young at heart
for a hayride up the
hill
in the pasture, two large birds, which I believe to be sandhill
cranes joined us. They kept a safe distance and stood down by
the fence. They were so tall that their bodies stood almost as
high as the four feet high fence. Every winter, we have some in
the neighborhood, and you can hear them making their strange noises
as they fly overhead.
One
of the most enchanting experiences I have had was to ride in the
hay wagon after dark, down the tree covered road, woods or pastures
on both sides, on around several curves and suddenly there was
a full moon hanging low in the eastern sky as it began to rise
over the lake. Lloyd drives the truck or tractor with the lights
off for these hayrides. On one of these rides it was very dark
and we were put putting along, laughing and talking. All of a
sudden there was a loud commotion beside us and all the kids screamed.
Truthfully? I think everybody screamed. We finally determined
it was some of the cows come to inspect this intrusion into their
domain. The small cemetery is next to the lake, and one time as
Lloyd was pulling the hay wagon by, he made noises like ghosts
to try to scare the kids. 
For
me Spring Lake with all the little creatures, tree covered lanes,
picturesque pastures with either horses or cattle, enough space
to accommodate the families without being too close, friendly,
but not intruding people, is a wonderful place to live. I have
been blessed. COMING: The domesticated animals. First will be
the cats.
PART
FIVE
DOWN ON THE FARM - CATS
Cats
are some of the most intriguing and entertaining creatures ever
created. Their different dispositions become evident when there
are several living together. As Lloyd has had a lengthy love affair
with them, we have had some unusual and touching experiences with
the ones who have made their home with us. We have seen snobbery,
clannishness, and also heartwarming displays of motherly love.
They have shown endearing affection for humans. Because of their
clannish inclination, any time a new cat came to live with us,
the other cats did not want to have anything to do with it, to
the point of moving away when the new one tried to eat. Many of
them stayed segregated for life; only their offspring would associate
with them. We have learned that all cats have their own cat-anality.
You can't call it personality.
THE
ARISTOCAT
An
elderly neighbor called to tell us a cat had taken up at her place,
and she did not want it. She knew we had lots of cats and wondered
if we might take another one. In trying to talk me into taking
this young cat, she kept assuring me that it was a beautiful cat
with nice manners. She said she thought it was a female, which
I like better as they stay at home and do not get all beat up
from fighting with other cats.
I
put forth my most convincing arguments to Lloyd, all the neighbor
had told me about the cat, in an effort to get him to just go
"look" at the cat. Finally, he reluctantly agreed, protesting
we did not need another cat, we had enough. We drove over on the
next road, down the long, winding drive, and knocked on the door
of a house that looked like a motel. When the lady brought the
cat for us to see, it was love at first sight for me. I saw what
unusual beauty and appeal she had. She had green eyes, long black
fur, a large, fuzzy tail and a light gray furry collar around
her neck. We discovered she had six toes on each front paw. 
This
beautiful creature had the art of enticement down to a science.
She turned all her cat charms on Lloyd, rubbing against his legs,
and settling comfortably in his arms when he picked her up to
scratch her neck. That was his first and last mistake where this
cat was concerned. Any resistance he had melted. I did not have
to do anything to convince him that we should take her. Once she
was in his arms, using her wiles on him, he agreed she could go
home with us. Lloyd fixed her a place on the screened porch and
she was content. Later when he felt she had settled in, he decided
she needed to explore the outdoors and get to know the other cats.
PART SIX-THE ARISTOCAT
That
evening when he put food out for the cats, this beautiful stranger
made herself right at home on the picnic table. But the other
cats were having no part of this intruder. They backed away from
her and sat a distance apart, just watching her. She ignored them,
eating until she was full and then sat down to wash her face and
paws. Finally, she jumped down from the picnic table, which had
long been the domain of the cats, and slowly walked off. She has
continued to get this treatment from the other cats, but she has
held her head high, oblivious to the shunning. She has endeared
herself to us, and that is all that matters as far as she is concerned.
She carries an air about her that suggest she is above all their
pettiness. Lloyd took her right away to have her fixed. When he
went to pick her up that evening, one of the persons working in
the cat hospital had her in her arms, carrying her around. She
told Lloyd that she was a smoked Persian, and the six toes is
one of the characteristics these cat have. She said that every
day they do these operations, they pick a cat of the day and Stealth
was the one for that day. Several times I have attempted to take
pictures of her. Since she is black, I have tried to put her against
a complimentary background. She refuses to stay where I put her,
so the pictures leave much to be desired. Just this week, I was
trying to get a picture of Lloyd with several of the cats. She
refused to sit with the rest of them. Went off a distance, lay
down, began cleaning herself and ignored all our pleas for her
to get in the picture. Two or three times, I picked her up and
gave her to Lloyd, only to have her squirm until she was free.
She returned to the same place and completely ignored us. Lloyd
named her Stealth, as we find her in the house and never see when
she makes her way in. I call her the Aristocat.


PART
SEVEN - THE GRANDMA CAT & OTHER CHARACTERS
The
old grandma cat was the start of many of the cats we have. She
tried to have as many as she could before Lloyd took matters in
hand and had her fixed. As she got older, and there were more
and more cats, she began to shun them. When the food was put on
the picnic table, she would not eat with them. We obliged her
need for some space, and began to put her food on the floor in
a pie plate. One of her kittens, Mama's Baby, who was grown by
this time, would eat with her. But if any of the other cats came
up to eat in her plate, she would hiss, throw a quick left hook,
and run them off. When she is lying around or sitting on the kitchen
window sill, if any of the other cats try to share her space,
she either runs them off or just moves. It is as if she has disdain
for this bunch of cats. She seems to have forgotten, she is the
cause of many of them. One
of the offspring of this cat was a calico who I named Callie.
She is an easy going, sweet natured cat who loves to be held and
petted. When we are outside working in the yard, she follows us
wherever we go, and when we stop to do something, she sits at
our feet, looking up into our face, waiting for some show of affection.
Many
of the cats go to the mailbox with Lloyd when he goes out. On
one occasion when he was taking video pictures of an armadillo
rooting in the yard, several of the cats had gathered around to
watch. Finally, the Grandma cat took matters in her own paw, ran
and jumped on the armadillo, who shot straight up in the air,
making a hissing noise. At this commotion, cats scattered everywhere.
When the armadillo landed on the ground, he looked around, returned
to rooting up the yard for a minute or so, thought better of his
decision, and took off for his hiding place under the shed, running
between Lloyd's legs.
Scarface was another cat who just took up with Lloyd. We never
knew where he came from, but he had some battle scars. It wasn't
long before we knew why. Scarface became a bully, so he had to
go.
Lloyd
has a reputation in the neighborhood because of his love for cats.
Well, everyone knows what happens when you get a reputation like
that? Every time a stray cat shows up at someone's house, Lloyd
gets a call to see if he will take it. He usually does, in fact,
I can't remember him refusing a cat. We have had some characters
given to us because of this. One of the neighbors up on the hill
called one day to say there was a young cat in a tree down by
the road and wanted to know if Lloyd would see if he could get
it down. Lloyd named her Spider because of the way she would bow
up and jump sideways across the yard. She entertained him many
times with these antics. As she matured, she got bigger and bigger
and became more aggressive. I remarked to Lloyd that I had never
seen a female cat who would fight with the male cats before. One
day, he had to examine Spider for fleas, burrs or something and
he came in and told me, "Guess what? Spider is a he."
That explained this cat's out of character behavior.
Another
one was a cat a young man at church got Lloyd to take. Then he
brought a cat home from church that was nearly starved to death.
That cat, Tiger, has been so grateful that he rescued her, that
she loves him dearly. She is another one who doesn't care what
the other cats think of her. There is food here, this is her home,
and she is staying. She has even taken over the kitchen window
sill which was the domain of Grandma cat. 
STRAY
Lloyd's love for cats was demonstrated by his taking in one of
the ugliest cats I have ever seen. One day she showed up at our
place. She had nothing as far as beauty was concerned; she was
all mingled in color, but he fed her as she was famished. He just
could not stand to see an abandoned cat starving. Cats know if
they can get that far, they are usually home free. Once you feed
a stray cat, that cat is yours for life. So this cat, Stray, belonged
to him for the rest of her life. When I questioned him about adopting
such a cat, his response was, "I felt sorry for her, she
didn't have a kittyhood."
PART
EIGHT - MIDWIFERY
The
old ugly cat had a kitten which he named Yellow. She and her daughter,
Little Girl, were especially close and looked so much alike that
I could not tell them apart. Early one morning as I looked out
the kitchen window, I saw one of the yellow cats sleeping in the
flower bed with a newborn kitten asleep on her. When Lloyd got
up I told him about the cats, saying, "That is unusual for
a cat to have her new born kitten right out in the open like that,
they usually hide under something." Lloyd looked at her and
said, "That's not her kitten, she's been fixed."
We
kept watching her, knowing when the sun came up and it began to
get hot, she would probably move, and he hoped she would lead
us to the true mother of the kitten. In a little while, she got
up, picked the kitten up in her mouth and began to head toward
the sheds. But she did not go under either shed. She went on through
the neighbor's fence and into his back yard. There Lloyd found
Little Girl with a couple more kittens. She was up under the neighbor's
bush hog mower deck. Lloyd
quietly slipped all the cats out and put them in a box on the
porch. This particular neighbor hates cats, and many times has
been heard turning the air blue at them. It seems that certain
of our cats like to taunt him by either crossing his yard, getting
on his truck, or sleeping in his azalea bed.
When
Little Girl had her next litter of kittens, she experienced problems.
A few days before they were born, she began to hang around Lloyd,
so he fixed her a bed on the screened-in porch. Late one evening,
as she began to try to have her kittens, she was having a difficult
time so Lloyd had to assist her. He called me to bring the scissors,
and we had to cut the umbilical cord on one of them. Being nervous,
I cut it too close to the cat's stomach and it began to bleed.
We were both upset and cast about how to stop the bleeding. We
decided to smear Vaseline on it, which we did and then left it
with the mother to keep it warm through the night. Early the next
morning as we went to see the kittens, expecting to see this one
dead, we saw that Little Girl had licked all the Vaseline off
the cat's belly, but there was no bleeding. Opossum, which Lloyd
named this cat because of the way it looked, is still with us.
When
Little Girl became "with kittens" again, a week or so
before they were due, Lloyd fixed her a bed on the screened-in
porch. One evening as I was outside watering the plants, she started
calling to me, with a distressing meow, begging me to come in
to her. I kept talking to her through the screen, but she kept
up her pleading. I finally went in and told Lloyd that she was
probably going to have her kittens, and she wanted one of us with
her. When we were, it seemed to comfort her. When Lloyd realized
she was having problems, he examined her and found that the kitten
was trying to come butt first. He performed the services of a
midwife and helped her have it. This kitten was named Elena after
a friend's little girl. One of us was in and out petting her and
talking to her as she spent two or three hours delivering these
kittens. She had four kittens, Elena, Slowpoke and two males,
Fuzzy and Buddy. These male cats were so beautiful. Yellowish
orange with large fluffy tails, but after that Lloyd had her fixed.
She had too much trouble having her kittens...TO BE CONTINUED

PART NINE -
THE PERSON/CAT CONNECTION
Little
Girl had too much trouble having her kittens. I took Fuzzy as
mine and paid special attention to him. Sometime after he was
grown, he disappeared. Lloyd looked for him for over a week, under
the sheds, in the junk by the sheds, in the thicket, in the neighbor's
yard; but could not find him. One morning when the food was put
on the picnic table, there he was like nothing was unusual. He
had not lost any weight, so we knew he had spent the time at somebody's
house. He disappeared a few more times, only to reappear. Finally,
when we went on vacation, he disappeared and we never saw him
again. I guess he found a home he liked better.
This
summer the mother Yellow died. Just two weeks later, Little Girl
died also. One account which shows the love they demonstrate was
a mother and daughter who shared the rearing of their kittens.
Later, the daughter had another litter, and only one of them lived.
One day, Lloyd found her dead. Before she died she had taken her
kitten and placed it with her mother.
Slowpoke
got her name because when she and her litter mates, who were raised
on the porch, began to be let outside, she lazily took her time
going out every morning. The two other kittens would come when
I called them and bound outside. But I always had to wait on her
to take her sweet time getting up, as she stretched her legs,
and then moved slowly towards the door.
Sometimes
when we go outside at night to look at the stars or a full moon,
several of the cats, Callie, Slowpoke, Stealth, Tiger would go
with us, rubbing on our legs, the younger ones running around,
jumping at leaves and at the older cats. Many of them get a head
scratch as Lloyd picks them up, talks to them as he scratches
behind their ears. I talk to them and sometimes they answer back,
in kitty talk of course. On several occasions, we have tried to
take pictures of the different cats. They act just like bratty
children; will not stay where you place them, move just as you
snap the picture. I tried, unsuccessfully, to get Slow Poke to
let me take her picture. She absolutely would not let me hold
her, and ran out the door. I took her picture on the run.
It
does get pretty cold where we live. Every winter Lloyd would put
cardboard boxes on the front porch, which faces south, and fill
them with hay for the cats to sleep in. All winter, the porch
was a mess. Finally, I convinced him to build them a house on
the back porch where 'their' picnic table sits. He built them
a motel, with different compartments, and filled it with hay.
Now they have their own living quarters, complete with 'their'
picnic table. We have learned one never owns a cat, they just
take care of them and get to share love with them.


The
picture of the quilt was my first finished one, except for a backing....Every
decade I have started one, but never finished it....I have some
things done with material of Cheryl's maternity dresses, and in
the one I sent you, there are pieces of some of my dresses and
one of material of Felicia's maternity dress. 9-24-02
THE JOYS OF GRANDCHILDREN
BY REATHA ALBURY