Tribute
to Alta
Dear
Family, In 1957, 47 years ago today (January 10, 2004) your mother,
aunt, sister, cousin, grandmother passed out of this life. Apparently
she was a very dearly loved individual who made a tremendous impact
on the lives of those who knew her. I never had the privilege
of knowing her. Five years after her death (on the anniversary
of her death), January 10, 1962, I was born to her oldest son
and his wife. This lovely woman and I share a common date in our
lives, but do we share anything else?
I
had an opportunity to talk to my mother this afternoon about Alta
and what she knew and remembered about her. She confirmed what
has been related to me over and over again about Alta's goodness
and sweet countenance. I don't really think I look very much like
her. While I would like to think I've got people hoodwinked enough
to think I am filled with goodness and have an overly sweet countenance,
I know people can see clearer than that. Not to mention my selfishness
rears its ugly head enough to disprove this notion. But I do think
we share something that is very important and that is our eternal
destination.
Everyone
I have ever questioned about Alta has said she was devout in her
religious beliefs. Through my own walk with the Lord I have noticed
how my faith is increased during times of adversity. Maybe her
faith was as strong as it was because of the adversity in her
life. We often wonder why people who serve the Lord with such
fervor suffer such atrocities. I contend that the atrocities push
us into a closer relationship with the Lord and make us more sensitive
to the Lord's presence as well as our dependence on Him. Instead
of people who serve the Lord suffer atrocities; I believe atrocities
serve as a catalyst to force us to serve the Lord with more fervor.
When we think we can handle all of our problems on our own, then
it is difficult to see a need to depend on God.
God
is a Big God and He has seen fit to make all of us to have our
individual traits. I have never fit the overly sweet, full of
goodness bill. As a child I was my parent's biggest problem. They
could have named me Alta Rebellious Johns. As an adult, I found
myself so self-serving it nearly cost me my marriage. When I was
33 years of age my life changed dramatically when I realized God
wanted me to turn the shambles of life over to Him. Since then
I have become increasingly aware of my dependence on God's mercy.
I have a feeling Alta knew something about dependence on God.
Maybe she didn't need to depend on His mercy, but needed His strength,
grace and/or power.
As
I celebrate 42 years of this life and am reminded of Alta, I feel
privileged to be related to her and look forward to spending eternity
in the same place. I hope I have the joy of spending some time
getting to know this precious woman!
Love,
Camille (Nellie/Wm>Alta Ruth>John Mart>Alta Camille)
FROM
LOIS SMITH MILLER January, 2004
I
want to wish my Aunt Alta Ruth Burdett a happy 100th birthday.
Aunt Alta, you were so sweet, and I know God has enjoyed your
presence with him. I hope to see you in heaven too. I love you,
til we meet again; with love your niece, Lois Smith Miller.
I also want to wish Alta Ruth Higgins, Happy Birthday. We had
some wild times in our younger years. Ruthie you caught up with
me again, as we are both 73. The only thing is you look so much
younger than I do. I always thought you were so Pretty and always
wished I was pretty as you. It was good to see you at the reunion.
Hope we get together again at this next reunion. Love you LOIS
"Oh,
honey, I loved your mama. She was the kindest, gentlest soul I
ever knew. How she ever put up with all those brats Ill
never know." _remarks by her niece and namesake, born on
her birthday, January 2,Alta Ruth Higgins Vaughn, April, 2001
Thelma
on Alta January, 2004
Alta
worked at the Western Union for a long time. Mother wanted her
to come down here to help her. Dad left. After Alta got married
the Western Union never called her back. They said they would
call her back, but they never did, so she never did go back to
work. Alta
was a real nice person. She came down here to help Mom out, and
she had to take a cut in pay. She was one of the last. When she
was up North she was one of the top ones. When she came down here
she lost seniority, took a cut in pay. She was supporting us for
awhile.
She
was good to us kids. She was good to Mother. She was upstairs
asleep because she had to work at night. Dad said to Mom, "You
shut up up there." Alta said, "I'm the one supporting
this family now. If I can't get my sleep I can't work." She
told him off. Dad was a bully and a coward. He was a bully to
people he could bully. He was not working. She was so sweet we
were just crazy about her. All of us were.
I
skipped school, and I didn't tell anybody. We were walking down
going to Sulfur Springs for some reason. Alta told me she knew
I had quit going to school, that I was skipping school. I had
gone to the tenth grade, and I didn't have very good grades. I
could catch onto things quick. If you didn't have a phone they
would send home a letter to your parents. If you would skip three
days they would call your mother. I went back when I was grown.
I went ahead and got my high school diploma after all of my kids
were grown. You learn a lot of things just going through life.
Me
and Dorothy are the only ones left. Dorothy had a stroke and she's
paralyzed on one side. Alta a hundred? Oh really? I'm 88. That's
right. (Nellie/Wm>Thelma)
Dorothy
on Alta January-2004
Her birthday was January 2nd, wasn't it? Alta was the peacemaker
. She tried to make peace with everybody. She was wonderful. When
she came down to Florida she had to take a cut in pay. She was
working at night. She went up and down the stairs about three
times while she got ready for work. She was in Ohio, and then
when she came down here she worked at night. She was always so
good. She helped everybody.She
always worked hard. I never did get to see a whole
lot of her. She was older than I was. I was born in 1914, so she
was ten years older. She went back to Ohio and thought she
could get together with Otto, but he had another woman.
I used to wonder if I was going to live a long time. I'm 89. I
feel okay, but I can't walk. I had a stroke, which affected my
whole right side.When Frank died the funeral guy who was
supposed to prepare him for burial said, "They sent the wrong
guy. There's no way this guy is 91 years old." He looked
about 60." (Nellie/Wm>Dorothy)
My
mom, Alta Johns, who carried me on her back so I could attend
church with her (my feet were sore and swollen); my mom who had
hopes that I would somehow absorb decent values for use long after
she was gone, she's more than earned the spot of being my favorite
hero. Bill Johns
SECOND
She
came into this dimension on the second of January, the second
child. Left handed, she would laugh at her difficulty in dealing
with a right-handed world. She never stepped boldly into anyone
else's space, but she would almost shyly approach and offer her
comments, waiting to listen more than to speak. She died when
her hair was still black and her children not completely raised.
She never corrected anyone's perception of her, but instead she
may have left them to think that seeming lack of polish, pride
and expensive trappings meant she hadn't amounted to much. If
that was what they chose to think. She offered a genuine interest
in others, not merely an interest in their being interested in
her. She was always willing to be second.
She
never realized that she was a colossus, a supernova of a spirit.
If she was a failure, it was in not seeing that she was never
a failure, that she filled the space she occupied with light.
When others shrink in retrospect she only grows grander. Happy
100th Birthday, Alta Ruth Burdett, from your daughter, Virginia.
- January 2, 2004

(Nellie/Wm>Edna)
AUNT ALTA AND UNCLE EVERETT
BY LOIS SMITH MILLER
My first memory of Aunt Alta and Uncle Everett
is of Okeechobee. Mama and I drove down there; I was probably
about three or four years old, and it was before we went to General's
(where Mama worked). It was really foggy. Mama kept saying it
was so foggy she could hardly see to drive. All of a sudden we
heard a train whistle. Mama got real upset because she couldn't
see the train. She kept looking around and hit a tree. The front
of the car hung on a limb. I don't think she got hurt, but my
neck got cut. Toward daylight someone stopped and called a wrecker
and got us down. I don't remember about the trip on to Aunt Alta's,
but when it got daylight Mama found out the railroad track was
along the road, so there was no way the train would have hit us.
I remember meeting Bunch (Everett's mother) but nothing important.
Mama and I went with Aunt Alta and Bunch down to the creek to
do the wash. I believe everybody just about washed their clothes
with a tub and a washboard and two rinse tubs. Aunt Alta was the
only one I ever saw take a bucket and fill up the tubs out of
the creek. It seems like we were there all day. She had lines
out there to dry the clothes I think. I was so young, but it is
something that has always stuck in my mind. I thought it was Lake
Okeechobee, but Mama told me when I was older that it was a creek
off the lake.